David Hockney is My Hero

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I was struck by a quote I ran across from David Hockney a few weeks ago, and I haven’t been able to get it out of my mind because, for the first time in my life, someone was finally able to put words to the powerful and unquenchable thirst that motivates and drives my soul, a drive that, as time goes on, is becoming even more pronounced.David-Hockney-painting-Th-005

“I think I’m greedy, but I’m not greedy for money – I think that can be a burden – I’m greedy for an exciting life. I want it to be exciting all the time, and I get it, actually. On the other hand, I can find excitement, I admit, in raindrops falling on a puddle and a lot of people wouldn’t. I intend to have it exciting until the day I fall over.”

At 76 years old,  Hockney  has a show at the…

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The 1969 Dodge Travco That Started it All

Two years ago we started the Baby Boomer Adventures blog based on the purchase of a 1969 Dodge Travco we found on craiglist in Tennessee. It was turquoise blue and white, both classic and a little corny, with a lot of rough edges and even more potential. It was the perfect throwback to the baby boomer generation and the launch pad for new careers as the “voice of the boomer generation”. We had visions of plastering our web address down both sides, loading up the dogs, some video cameras and editing equipment, and traveling the U.S. in our awesome new “Boomer Mobile” chasing baby boomers and their adventures from coast to coast.

It took six months to get the Travco registered after we discovered it had no vehicle identification number, then Michael left for the RV Training Center in Florida for nine weeks. Two weeks after he left, I broke my ankle so severely that I was in bed for two months and have only recently become mobile enough to tackle the interior restoration, and our grand plan to conquer the world in a 1969 Travco was replaced by the inescapable realization that a 27 foot Dodge Travco was never going to accommodate two adults, two cats and three dogs no matter how grand our dreams.

Because Michael has been working almost non stop as a mobile RV technician when he isn’t working as a whitewater raft guide on the French Broad River, it fell to me to begin the restoration myself. I pulled up all the old carpet, cleaned and refinished all the wood work, cut and stained new wood panels and all the baseboard, reupholstered the banquet seats, made new curtains, and with the leftover fabric, made a quilt and matching throw pillows, and replaced all the carpeting. We will be putting the Travco up for sale just as soon as Michael has had the chance to test all the operating systems, including the generator, water pump, heating and air conditioning.

We hope someone out there sees in the “Boomer Mobile” what we did, and they can put it to good use on some awesome camping trips around the U.S. We haven’t given up on the dream of becoming the voice of the boomer generation, but we need to do it in an RV that has room for our menagerie, a Harley Davidson, an editing bay, and a future big enough to accommodate all the living we have left to do.

Dioptics Solar Shield Sunglasses and Why I Like Them

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I got my first pair of prescription glasses when I was in second grade, which isn’t surprising, since I come from a long line of people who are as blind as bats. We couldn’t afford prescription sunglasses when I was growing up, so I spent most of my childhood squinting to block out the glare, or wearing sunglasses with my prescription glasses.  It was an unwieldy combination, to say the least, and made me look even geekier than I already was.

I recently had the opportunity to “test drive” a new pair of sunglasses by Dioptics Solar Shield, who provided me with a free sample through the Vibrant Influencer Network. I had my choice of which of several styles I wanted to try, so I selected the Sport version because I figured, if I was going to put my neck out to see what I thought of this new product, then I was going to be as tough on these new glasses as humanly possible. Plus, I live with someone who is a whitewater raft guide, a zipline guide, an RV technician and an independent contractor in the construction business, so I had an ace in the hole when it came to putting these Dioptic Solar Shield Sport sunglasses to the test.

The Sports model fits over prescription glasses, and because they are designed to cover your own glasses seamlessly, the problem of having old fashioned flip-up lenses that aren’t the same size or shape is immediately eliminated. Michael has a big face, and wears big glasses; I wear prescription reading glasses that can be folded up and put in a tube, yet we both felt the glasses covered our own evenly without adding any additional bulk. The frames are hard plastic with vents on the top and bottom to prevent your own glasses from steaming up, and they are designed to grip the sides of your head comfortably so they don’t fall off during strenuous activity.

The thing we both liked best about the glasses however were the polar optics. Even though these are not wildly expensive sunglasses, the lenses are clear, and because they have a larger field of vision than more traditional sunglasses (the glasses have a “wrap-around” effect with little side “windows” that protect the sides of your eyes from the sun as well) there is no distortion, so whether I am outside reading on the porch, or he is standing on a platform fifty feet off the ground clipping people onto a zipline, it’s easy to see what you are doing.

The glasses also provide UV protection, which seems like a dumb thing to say about sunglasses, but when you consider the design and how it covers your eyes more completely than traditional sunglasses, you not only have a product that protects your entire eye area, but you get to look like a movie star while you are doing it! I really think the folks at Dioptic have thought of everything when it comes to these sunglasses, so if you would like more information, check out Dioptic Solar Shields at www.solarshield.com.

And Now, a Word From Our Sponsors….

 

raftingThe first baby boomers were born in 1946 when the average lifespan in this country was 66.7 years old. That didn’t give anyone a lot of time to grow up, get married, raise kids, work a 9 to 5 job and retire before it was all over.  Anyone born in 1946 reached retirement age on January 1, 2011, and 10,000 people a day, every day, for the next 19 years, will turn 65.  Today’s baby boomers will live to their eighties and beyond, and it’s estimated that by 2050, there will be 3.8 million people on the planet over the age of 100.

Yet only a handful of companies recognize that this new wave of consumers are hungry for the kinds of adventures they have waited their whole lives to experience.  Baby boomers are turning to adventure travel in droves, and that is why we have designed a unique program to allow baby boomers of any age to become whitewater raft guides, with an exciting four day intensive raft program on the French Broad River in beautiful Asheville, North Carolina!

This accelerated program will dive headlong into a series of whitewater training exercises combined with a classroom education, to teach everything from proper inflation techniques to the basic uses of ropes and riggings, to paddle commands, ferry angles for crossing currents, how to get a raft unstuck from rocks, and swimming techniques in swift water.  Participants will have the chance to guide a trip at the end of training, and the festivities will conclude with an awards ceremony at the Hot Springs Campground with a full Southern barbeque.

Whether you are looking to improve your existing whitewater raft skills, or you want to take the grandkids boating, French Broad Rafting Expeditions Fantasy Raft Adventures is the accelerated learning experience for you.  Class sizes are limited to a total of 12 students to provide each participant with the opportunity to practice their whitewater raft skills on Class Two, Three and Four rapids on one of the oldest rivers in the world, surrounded by breathtaking scenery in one of the most celebrated parts of the country.   Asheville was recently named one of the top five places to live based on our commitment to sustainable living, organic farm to table culinary experiences, the arts, and a beer culture that is second to none.  Oh, yeah, and we have the Biltmore Estate as well!

Participants in this program will be provided with all necessary raft gear, from personal flotation devices to helmets and paddles.   Coffee and pastries will be provided each morning before departure and every lesson comes with a full lunch at the covered pavilion.  Transportation to and from your accommodations to the outpost will not be provided, however all transportation from the outpost to the put in and the take out will be provided along with the bus trip back from Hot Springs Campground on Monday afternoon.  Travel and other accommodations are not included in the cost of this package, but we will be happy to provide recommendations for hotels and rental properties as well as restaurants, spas, shopping, and other activities.

Total cost of the four day intensive Fantasy Raft Guide School is $750 per person.   Participation is incumbent upon the number of people who enroll.  We need a minimum of ten participants per class, so if classes do not full up, your deposit will be refunded in full.  You must know how to swim and be in good health in order to be able to qualify for this class.  All participants will be required to sign a waiver indemnifying Adventure Rafting Expeditions in the event of injury or death.

For more information,  visit our website at babyboomeradventure.com

It’s All About the Content, Stupid….

 

Blogging is all about content.  At least, that’s what they tell me.  I am not good at stuff like that.  When I was working as a screenwriter in Hollywood, everyone told me I was  GREAT writer, but my work always lacked “theme”.  I never knew what that meant.  I watched A LEAGUE OF HER OWN recently, and it stuck out like a sore thumb that the “theme” had to do with the fact that the character Geena Davis played had absolutely NO character arc.  She reluctantly agrees to go to the Baseball Hall of Fame reunion, she reluctantly greets the other players on the ball field, and when the story goes into flashback, she spends the entire movie being a reluctant baseball player, a reluctant older sister, reluctantly gorgeous (because as anyone who is gorgeous can tell you, being gorgeous is a real drawback) and only halfheartedly interested in playing in or winning the World Series of Baseball.  So if the theme of this movie is about being a reluctant participant in your own life, then this movie is dead on target.

I have been casting around for a theme to this blog.  Is it about us as baby boomers?  Is it about the baby boomers I have come to admire?  Is it about being an adventurous baby boomer?  And what makes someone an adventurous baby boomer?  Someone who can stand upright on their own and breath without the aid of an oxygen tank?   Or someone who goes bungy jumping off an expansion bridge in New Zealand?  Or both?  What is my theme, who are my characters, and how do I go about executing a successful blog, with millions of followers?  Because I want millions of followers.  I mean sure, Gangham Style is an AWESOME video and FULL of spirit and energy, but I have a youtube video people LOVE and I am not an internet sensation….YET.

So like anyone else who is trying to figure out how to make baby boomers relevant, and fighting what seems to be an uphill battle that is obvious and painful at the same time, I have decided to start profiling baby boomers, to let their dreams, accomplishments and personal histories tell the story.

If you want YOUR story told, send me an email and I will get back to you to set up an interview.   Because as fascinating as the Kardashians are, they got NOTHING on the folks who INVENTED tie-dye….

Oh…and we completely revised our website….have a look….

http://www.babyboomeradventure.com

Why Starting All Over Again is no Big Deal or Why Age Has its Benefits.

I’ve never understood why people are so afraid of change.  Life changes every single day, and so does how you feel about it.  I have faced tragedies with grace, and fallen to pieces over minor setbacks.   I am used to struggling, and fighting, to get what I want, and to keep from losing it. Sometimes, life comes easily to me, and sometimes it seems that no matter what I do or where my heart is, nothing goes the way I’d planned.

Michael and I have been at a crossroads for what seems like years.  We both gave up our art careers to concentrate our energies on surviving, and while we are both as type A as they come, we just could not decide on a direction for our futures.  We never really factored in how the economy was impacting our ability to get out of the mess we found ourselves in; we both thought it was something we were doing, that we could change our circumstances through sheer force of will and by redoubling our efforts.

In some ways we were right; in the past year we saved our house from foreclosure, put some money in the bank and decided on a direction for our future.  We managed the impossible in just six short months, but we’ve also paid a high price for it.  After working twelve hours a day, seven days a week as a whitewater raft guide this summer and putting every penny he made into the bank,  Michael fell off the top of a whitewater raft bus a week before RV school started.  He suffered a minor concussion but dug into school anyway and is number one in his class. On my way back from getting him set up in his new apartment in Largo, I discovered that the company I work for decided to move my division to the Phillipines in mid October, leaving me without a job (or the choice to take a job I would hate).   A week after I returned home, I fell in the backyard and broke every bone in my ankle.  I had to have emergency surgery and will be in a cast for at least another four to six weeks. Because I am on medical leave, I still have a job even though my division no longer exists, so I can’t work, but I also can’t collect unemployment.

One of the great benefits of age however, is understanding that even though the last few weeks have not been optimal, nothing lasts forever.  We went from having no idea what to do with ourselves for the rest of our lives at the beginning of this year, to deciding on a totally new career path and working to make it happen in less than six months.  Michael is just two short weeks away from being certified as an RV Technician by the RVTC, with the ability to replace, install, or repair everything from air conditioning units to water heaters, and from awnings to tow packages, in every type of recreational vehicle you can imagine.  We plan on spending six months of the year in Asheville, and six months of the year on the road, which should suit both our pocketbooks, and our wanderlust, just fine.  There are a few other projects in the offing, not the least of which is the whitewater raft guide intensive for baby boomers next summer, baby boomer TV, and whatever else happens to capture our fancy that other boomers can relate to long the way.

A very wise and amazing friend of mine and I were talking not long ago about how damaging this economy has been to baby boomers in particular, and some of the reasons why.   We decided that it’s impossible to work harder, or even wiser, to change the trajectory we are on, not with the perfect storm of cutbacks, wage reductions and age discrimination to overcome.  I still think most boomers feel there is no way out of the mess we are all in, but clinging to what worked before isn’t the answer.   Take a deep breath, step out of the box, and look for ways to challenge yourself.  Some things may work, some things may not, but holding fast to what you know won’t change the fact that that someday, you will be gone from this earth. Have the courage to do something different, even if you start one step at a time.  Michael was a photographer for 25 years, then an artist, and now, an RV Tech.  I was in the film business for 12 years, a successful gourd artist for 20 years, and now, a middle aged broad with a broken ankle and a whole new career at 53.

Life is too short to be afraid of change, and it won’t stop the inevitable from happening anyway.  So get out there and do something different.  You might be surprised at how much one slight shift in your consciousness opens you to new ideas, and new adventures.  My next adventure is to put the finishing touches on the new website and promotional materials for the new business.  I am designing the website myself, and I gotta say, its going to be killer….

Ten Fun Things to Do When You Are Laid up in Bed

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Three weeks ago, I fell in my backyard and broke every bone in my ankle. I was gathering fallen branches to use for kindling this winter, and I had just finished bringing an armload up to the wood pile, when I decided to take a short cut across the yard to collect the rest.  Like most people in North Carolina, my lawn unfolds in stages; it slopes sharply from the street to my house, levels out for awhile, then slopes again to the rest of the yard.  Both slopes are steeper than they look, something I found out the hard way last spring when I was walking across the backyard carrying a steaming bowl of hot beef stew  to eat while I was watching the dogs play. I slipped on the wet grass and went down on my butt, the bowl went flying and I wound up having to take…

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